How To Honor Your Mother

Yesterday was "Mother's Day."  I know many mom's had a great day as their children pampered them, feed them, and perhaps gave them cards and presents.  I think it is great that we set aside a day to recognize the hard work and challenges of motherhood.  But I believe it's important for us to honor our mothers everyday.  I want to share with you eight ways you can honor your mom.

1. Verbally.  Whenever possible make sure you tell your mom how much you love her!  As often as possible, express your admiration for all the wonderful qualities she has.  And if there are any issues you need to talk to her about, do it with love and respect.
2. Affectionately.  Remember, your mother was the first one to hold and cradle you.  She was the one who affectionately cared for all your needs.  As you get older be sure to reciprocate that affection by hugging and embracing her often.
3. Patiently.  No one is perfect.  But if there is one person who merits our understanding and patience, it's our mothers.  Remember, she labors under a huge responsibility.  Instead of complaining, we should pray for her often.
4. Gratefully.  In general, moms give an incredible amount, and all they usually want in return
   
   is to be appreciated and heard.  Be grateful while you have your mother with you.  Don't wait until it is too late.  Look for special ways to show your gratitude for all she has done.
5. Generously.  If you have the means, consider what you can do to make your mom's life a little easier.  Give her what she needs, lovingly and sacrificially.  It displeases the Lord when children concentrate on building wealth but leave their parents in poverty.
6. Forgivingly.  There is never a legitimate reason to hold a grudge against your mom. If you ever begin to feel angry over some past hurt, remember how many times she forgave you. Think about all the sacrifices she has made for you and show her forgiveness and compassion.
7. Cheerfully.  Many times we take our troubles to our mothers but forget to bring our joys and successes to them as well.  Our moms need encouragement.  We should try to stay positive, make them laugh and remember all the good times we've had together.
8. Honorably.  Do you live in such a way that your mom is proud of you? Nothing honors your mother so much as seeing you and your children as godly believers, fully devoted to Jesus Christ.  Live an honorable life to show respect for what your mother has poured into you.

Mothers are a precious gift to their families and the value of a godly mother is beyond measure.  So love your mom.  Whether she lives close to you or has gone on to be with the Lord, celebrate her life by how you live.

-- Pastor Temple